Years ago, when I was Bar Mitzvahed, the accepted way to begin your speech in the synagogue was “Today I am a Man!” Although the other kids who were Bar and Bat Mitzvahed were only 13 years old and far from being or acting like adults, it repeated the millennia-old tradition of my ancestors. In California, we have a somewhat similar misconception that has become part of the popular lore, that becoming 18 or graduating from high school ends all burdens and risks related to child support. Sometimes fairytales include some elements of truth, as does this one, but they also disguise some of the ogres waiting to beat your head with a club.
The California child support law provides specific statutory language on when obligations end.
“(a) The duty of support imposed by Section 3900 continues as to an unmarried child who has attained the age of 18 years, is a full-time high school student, and who is not self-supporting, until the time the child completes the 12th grade or attains the age of 19 years, whichever occurs first.” — Family Code §3901(a).
This means support is not automatically terminated on a child’s 18th birthday. If the child is still in high school, unmarried, and not financially independent, parents remain obligated until graduation or the child’s 19th birthday, whichever comes first. In practice, if your child repeats a year or begins school late, payments may continue well beyond the age of 18.
While the termination date is a critical question, most parents also want to understand how support is calculated in the first place. California follows the Statewide Uniform Guideline, often referred to as an “income shares model.”
Key elements of the calculation include:
California also allows certain deductions, such as other court-ordered support obligations or proven financial hardships, but these are narrowly applied. The calculation itself is often run through official software such as DissoMaster, used by courts and attorneys to ensure consistency.
Many parents assume child support ends when their child reaches majority. However, in divorce or custody cases, parents sometimes agree to contribute to college tuition or living expenses. Family Code §3587 makes these agreements enforceable as binding contracts.
Courts generally do not order college contributions unless they are voluntarily agreed to in writing; however, once included in a marital settlement agreement, they are enforceable regardless of any subsequent financial changes. This means that a parent who promises to cover college tuition cannot later claim inability to pay without risking enforcement action.
California law recognizes that some children cannot become fully independent due to illness or disability. Under Family Code §3910, parents remain financially responsible for adult children who are incapacitated and unable to support themselves.
In such cases, the obligation can last indefinitely, depending on the child’s needs and resources. Courts may order ongoing financial support to ensure basic living expenses, medical care, and other necessities are met. This obligation reflects the state’s policy that families, rather than public resources, should first bear the financial responsibility for dependent adult children.
For many years, parents who owed past-due support (arrears) could raise defenses to block collection, such as waiver, laches, or expiration under the statute of limitations.
This changed in 2005 when Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger signed a revision of Family Code §4502, creating §4502(c). In Marriage of Fellows (2006) 39 Cal.4th 179, the California Supreme Court confirmed the constitutionality of this law, which eliminated most defenses against collection.
The result is significant: unpaid child support obligations do not expire. Arrears accumulate 10% simple interest per year and remain collectible indefinitely, even from a parent’s estate after death. This ensures that obligations to children are not extinguished simply by the passage of time.
Today, the California Department of Child Support Services (DCSS) plays a central role in enforcing support orders. Courts and agencies have wide-ranging tools at their disposal, including:
Because arrears accrue interest and remain enforceable indefinitely, even small missed payments can quickly escalate into overwhelming debts if not addressed promptly.
Child support orders are not static. Parents may petition the court for modification when the circumstances have materially changed. Common examples include:
Modifications are not retroactive unless a formal request is filed with the court. If you lose income but fail to file, arrears will continue to build at the previously ordered amount. Filing the appropriate forms, commonly Judicial Council Form FL-300 (Request for Order) and FL-150 (Income and Expense Declaration), is critical to ensure the court can evaluate the change.
While the age of majority and high school graduation are the most common endpoints, California law recognizes special circumstances where obligations may end sooner or continue longer:
Child support is closely tied to custody arrangements. A parent with majority custody typically receives support, while the noncustodial parent pays. However, changes in custody directly affect the calculation. For instance, if the noncustodial parent gains substantial additional custodial time, support may decrease or shift.
Because custody and support are interdependent, modifications in one area often trigger a reassessment in the other. Parents considering changes in visitation or parenting time should also assess how these changes will affect their financial obligations.
It is largely correct that most of us will be relieved of the legal responsibility to support our children when they graduate from high school and reach the age of 18. However, as outlined above, obligations may continue under special circumstances such as disability, arrears, or enforceable college provisions. Enforcement mechanisms are strong, arrears never expire, and failure to act promptly can result in severe financial consequences.
If you are uncertain about your obligations, whether ongoing or past due, it is essential to seek legal advice. Understanding not only when support ends, but how it is calculated, enforced, and modified, is critical to protecting your financial security and ensuring compliance with California law.
Yes. If your child is still in high school, unmarried, and not self-supporting, you may need to continue paying until they graduate or turn 19.
Not unless you voluntarily agreed in a marital settlement agreement. Such promises are enforceable, even if your financial situation changes.
Arrears accumulate interest at 10% annually and never expire. Enforcement measures can include wage garnishment, liens, tax refund interception, and even contempt proceedings.
Yes, but you must petition the court with the proper forms. Support is not automatically reduced, and arrears will continue to build if you do not file.
Yes, emancipation through marriage, military service, or a court order ends obligations earlier than the standard age rule.
Support is calculated partly based on custodial timeshare. More parenting time generally reduces the amount owed by the noncustodial parent.
Child support obligations are complex and often misunderstood. Between age thresholds, enforcement mechanisms, arrears, and special circumstances, parents can find themselves overwhelmed.
At Reape Rickett, our experienced family law attorneys provide clarity and advocacy. We help parents calculate accurate obligations, enforce or modify existing orders, and protect their financial stability.
Visit Reape Rickett to schedule a consultation and get the legal guidance you need to manage your child support obligations effectively.